看待一件事情時,我們總會帶有自己的視角和思考框架,然後才會有感受和評斷。易構,就是離開原有的視角和框架,重新建構另一框架去看同一件事情。「塞翁失馬焉知非福」就是中國人運用易構智慧的最佳例子,是我們日常生活中常常會用到的技巧。易構法不單可以幫助我們擺脫困局,更全面地掌握事情,亦可以是關顧事工中的重要技巧──引帶對方重新建構思考的框架,以致有新的盼望和出路,或修正原有的想法。雖然我們在日常生活中常常會用到易構法,但成功易構的比率卻不多,尤其是在關顧事工上。
本書就是從理論層面分析易構法,使用易構時該注意的事項,以致能有意識地使用易構法,提高成效。此外,更提供案例和各種牧養處境,說明多種使用易構時可挪用的技巧,如何不操控霸道地引帶對方離開原有框架。
作者簡介
甘東農,普林斯頓神學研究 (Princeton Theological Seminary)牧養神學教授,獲費梅斯教席。著有:Deadly Sins and Saving Virtues(1987),The Depleted Self: Sin in a Narcissistic Age(1993), Agents of Hope: A Pastoral Psychology(1995)。已中譯作品有:《鮮活故事:教會裏的牧養輔導》(基道,2006)。
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