父母總認為對孩子的付出是一種莫大的犧牲,求好心切並萬般期待,卻沒想到可能給孩子帶來極大的壓力和傷害。孩子們無法感受到父母的愛,是因為父母把他們「商品化」了,總是在挑毛病,老想改造他們。父母似乎只在乎考試成績如何,卻不願了解他們內心的感受與想法。
當孩子們受到負面的壓力,無論是來自父母家人、老師同學、學校社會或是自己,就會產生如:霸凌、打架、鬧事、成癮、焦慮、暴怒、抑鬱、自卑、自虐、說謊、失眠、翹課、翹家、放縱、結交損友等等身心上的問題,引發不當的行為表現。
父母需要學著從兒女的角度來辨識,什麼對他們而言才是最終的好處,以及如何支持兒女完成屬於他們的理想目標。父母若想多瞭解孩子,除了要設法多溝通外,更應該先從瞭解自己開始。當父母能誠實而對自己,才有機會和孩子建立安全穩固並相互相任的關係,孩子們也才能敞開心胸、毫無顧忌地,和父母溝通他們內心真正需要和想法。
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